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Do they delight in our presence? Do they see our beauty? Do they respond to our wants and needs? Do we matter to them? If so, an image of ourselves as worthy and lovable is reflected back to us, and we begin to integrate it into a positive self-image.

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Children who lack this reflection experience heartbreak and grieve alone, because the adults they would normally share their inner worlds with are the very people they feel hurt by. As adults, many of them end up in marriages that resemble their childhood. Perhaps without realizing it, you sought out what felt familiar to you from your knoww pain of feeling helpless and alone.

Early on, when the sexual problems became apparent, how did you and your husband talk about them? Sex isn't the only aspect of a relationship, and there are other ways of enjoying each other's company. Discuss what you want and what you don't want to do.

Ask yourself if you feel comfortable. Is it the right time, in the right place, and with the right person? Do you really trust the person, and do you feel the same way about one another?

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If you think you might have sex, ask yourself the following questions: Does it feel right? Do I love my partner? Have cgat got contraception organised to protect against pregnancy?

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Am I thinking about having sex just to impress my friends or keep up with them? Being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to have sex.

Even if you have done it once or twice, you still need to make sure your boyfriend or girlfriend is as keen as you are each time. How anykne I bring up the subject of safer sex? When you decide to have sex, there's the possibility of pregnancy, catching a sexually transmitted infection STI such as chlamydiaor both. Whoever you're thinking of having sex with, it's important to talk about contraception and condoms before you have sex.

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Both of you have a responsibility to have this conversation. Starting a conversation about the different types of contraception could be a good way to start talking about other issues to do with sex, such as how you feel about it and what you do and don't want to do. You could try saying: "I found out there are 15 different types of contraception … If we were to have sex, which one should we use?